THINGS THAT NO ONE WILL TELL YOU ABOUT ADULT LIFE
Growing up as an adult is
different compared to the life as a child or young age, adult hood facing up
variety of the challenges, you need to have enough wisdom to be able to deal
with the people that surround you, here I am going to explain the things that
one must know as an adult and sometimes no one will tell you but you will
notice these things by yourself
1.There will be something who loves you no matter what
In your life as an adult
you may witness that some people will hate you and others will be jealous of
you on what you have managed to accomplish but there is always someone or some
people who will love you no matter the situation you are going through
2.Relatives can be your biggest enemy
You must understand that
the people you live with may act like they are happy as you become successful
but the truth is they are not, only few of them will be sincere to tell you
that they are happy for you but a lot of them will not like to see you succeed
in your journey of life
3.you have to work very hard for your talent to start showing up
Talent isn’t something
that comes on its own, talent is something that you have to work on very hard
and once you know something very well people will now say that you know it
because it is talent but the truth is you have to work hard for it to show up
3.Life will only give you what you deserve
In most cases people
always wants more in life but life will only give you what you deserve, if
something is not given to you then you cannot force it otherwise it will be
chaos
4.You will repeat you mistake over and over again
This happen to everyone
because every has his behavior and his/her ways of life so most of the time
people find themselves doing things that they have been doing always or some of
the time, this include the mistakes, you will always find yourself in the same
mistake after some day
5.if you can’t love yourself then you can’t love others
This is very true, love
start with yourself, if you can’t love yourself enough then it is impossible to
love others, you must love yourself on what you eat, wear, the place you live
or the job you do, then after that it will be easy to show love to other, if
you can’t care for yourself then you cannot care for others, everything begins
with self-love
6.The more success you acquire the more positive you have to
became
Notice that each time,
you get promotion then you must learn to be nicer to others so that you can
work well with the other if you are so mean and arrogant then no one will
support you, and sometimes you will meet with big challenges in your position
but you must be wise enough to think positive and act in a positive manner in
order to solve those problem
7. people who succeed are always ruthless
Being nice is good but a
nice person is not useful because in most cases people who are so nice they can’t
accomplish anything, they can’t even educate the young men or women, being
ruthless is very productive people who are ruthless have always succeeded
greater things, hence being ruthless in ambitious manner is always very
productive and can achieve greater things
8.No matter who you are someone will always hate you
There is someone who will
always hate you no matter what you do, even if you do something good to help
other but at one point or the other someone will just be filled with hatred for
what you have done
9.responsibility is unavoidable
You can’t avoid
responsibilities whether you are married or not, you will still be responsible
for your family and relatives, so keep that in mind you can’t just separate
yourself completely from those that are related to you.
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