WHY
LIFE SEEMS TO BE SO HARD?
Living is something that is very beautiful and
good to experience everyone supposed to enjoy the life that they live even
though there are some challenge here and there for some reason life seem to be
so hard and to other it seems to be more stressful but there are things that we
do in life that bring this result,
To
some people who was born with silver spoon in their mouth may seem to notice
that life is difficult but to some who was born so poor have to work hard to
get themselves better.
the following could be the reason why life
seems to be so hard to some people
TO
MANY RESPONSIBILITY
Responsibilities should not exceed your standard of life itself, when someone has got so
many responsibilities and then he/she is incapable of handling them then life
will appear to be so hard to that person, as the standard of life increase and
so the responsibility
But
also we may categorize the responsibilities into two group the first one are
those responsibilities that we cannot avoid for example once we grow up we may
have to take care of our young brothers and sister who are in our families,
sometimes in the family you could be only one who have education so it very
crucial and your responsibility to make sure that you take good care of your
family.
But
there are also those responsibilities that the individual has to seek for the
sake of his own ambition for example getting marriage and have children, buying
a car of your choice, building a house, starting a business, leading group of
people to do something useful all these are the responsibilities of the
ambitious person
For
example, if you have children and don’t have a job you are going to be stressful
all day long, or you work hard and getting paid a little but you live a
luxurious life soon or later you are pocket are going to be empty and so you
are going to feel like life is too tough.
LACK
OF RESOURCES
If
you are going to establish your life so that you can live well and comfortable one
the most important thing is to establish the
resources these resources will enable you to get certain needs without
paying for them for example if you plant vegetable you
may not need to buy vegetable anymore, if you can cook
then you may not need to buy food at restaurant
which it could be expensive, so establish the resources that will give you free
services for some time or lower the cost of life
LAZZINESS
People
who are lazy they are not going to be
successful that easy this is because they will have so many things which are
not done yet, working hard and working smart is one of the thing that can
establish your work and push you to even more great level in life, great
opportunity come to those who are looking for them, a lazy man can’t work and
can’t get anything done.
LACK
OF INVESTMENT
In
life you have to learn to save your money,
troubles and emergencies will come knocking at your door any time, if you have
not invested any money then you may feel that life is so hard and unfair but if
you have invested your money then it will give you some
hope and remove the sense of insecurity in
your mind and heart knowing that you can tackle your problems and solve them
easily.
Hence
you must build the habit of investing your money for the future usage.
LOOK
AT THE BRIGHTER SIDE OF LIFE
In
life there are challenges that you are going to meet and there are people who
are not well may be they are sick, or experiencing problems, you must learn to
think positive and know that things may
change and that challenges of life a normal to every human being under the sun,
so pray, have good sense of humor, look for the ways to get better, have a good
plan and finally things will work out good for you.
LACK OF EDUCATION
Education
is very important when have given responsibilities to lead people or to be the
leader of your own families, education can help you get good job that pays well
and good payment can help you to support your family better, people who are not
educated find it difficult to get a job and even if they get a job it doesn’t
pay well so they have to struggle even more
LACK OF EXPERIENCE IN LIFE
Some
people think that when they finish university, they are going to get job easily
but that may not be very true, you can have all the degree in the world but you
will still need some experience in life on how you will become successful and
escape the hardship of life
There
are habits of successful people that everyone need to know in order to overcome
the challenges of life for example you must learn to be extremely positive
otherwise you will not be able to work with many people, you must have
knowledge about money and how it works, you must know how to set up your plan
in order to succeed something. It is better to learn from those who went before
you until they succeed.
LACK OF COMMITMENT
Commitment
is something that some people don’t want to be in, if you lack commitment on
something then it is almost impossible for that thing to prosper and develop
If
you wish to get into business you must commit yourself to take care of it every
day even if you don’t see profit at that time.
People
who have talent to do things they must commit themselves into doing practice
every day otherwise their talent may fade away, so get committed and start
doing it with all your strength if you find out that it is not worth it they
you look for something else to do.